[item] 3 vintage window sashes without glass and 2 containers of polished rocks
[purchase info] A friend gave me the windows and the rocks were leftovers from a creative element at church
[time in my possession] Less than a year
[last used] Never
[difficulty level in getting rid of it] Easy
[destination] Given to a friend
[info] I gave these to my friend who’s putting her house back together after a house flood. She wants a “zen” bedroom, so she’s going to use these items in her new decor. I like them, but I’m downsizing, and they’re just not high on the I’m-going-to-do-something-with-this list.
Freeycycle is the modern day dumpster diving, without having to touch a dumpster or trash can. From the freecycle site: It’s a grassroots and entirely nonprofit movement of people who are giving (and getting) stuff for free in their own towns. It’s all about reuse and keeping good stuff out of landfills. Each local group is moderated by local volunteers (them’s good people). Membership is free. To sign up, find your community by entering it into the search box above or by clicking on ‘Browse Groups’ above the search box. Have fun!
I had my first free items from freecycle.org a couple of weeks ago. Three empty 5-gallon paint buckets from Home Depot. I really needed just one, but the others will come in handy too, as I need to get rid of most of the paint I’ve been hoarding for years.
A few days ago, I got 3 lamps from freecycle. One of them being a really cool, ultra-modern lamp, but needing repair to the on/off switch. I haven’t repaired the lamp yet, but I can use the electrical from one of the other lamps that was missing a shade. This lamp was not cheap and is probably the nicest lamp I own now. The other small lamp, also missing a shade, will be my new energy efficient light in the nook on my staircase. I ran electrical to that a couple of months ago since there was electrical in the closet underneath the stairs.
I’ve also gotten rid of things that I don’t need anymore. Clutter is not my friend, so this made it easy. I had some fence boards that I had no place to store. Someone on freecycle was getting as many fence pieces as possible so he could build a new fence. Smart dude, as he probably saved $5k and kept a lot of wood out of the landfill. Continue reading
December 11, 2009… I was listening to talk radio on my way to work yesterday. It was so incredibly cold I didn’t want to let go of my warm coffee mug to steer the car, much less turn on the radio. The news guy was reporting on the experiences of the fake mall Santas this year, disclosing the newest Christmas lists they’re receiving. Many of the kids sitting on Santa’s lap are not asking for the typical toys and electronics, they’re asking for basic necessities. “Mommy really needs a job” or “Could we just have our house back?” Some others are asking for food and clothing. You know the economy is bad when kids are happy to get socks and underwear for Christmas.
Santa Claus. The historical Saint and the modern day icon of commercialized Christmas. Who is Santa? Santa has many roots in history spanning the globe, roots also ranging from Christianity to paganism. The early Christian Santa was Saint Nicholas. He was a Saint that gave generous gifts to the poor, especially to daughters of poor parents so they did not have to become prostitutes. I could go on for days here about the history of Santa, but he did have his start as a good guy that helped people.
Honestly, I’ve always struggled with the whole Santa thing. I did not want my kids believing that some overweight guy in a furry red suit is going to give them anything they want for Christmas. Their dad said that was wrong and I was awful for even thinking it. Choose your battles, right? I chose not to fight this one.
My earliest recollection of Santa is asking my parents if Santa was real. I was in kindergarten, five or six years old, and already wondering how one guy could go around the planet in one night, bringing lots of stuff to kids. And don’t get me started on the flying reindeer and sleigh. I suppose my over-analyzing of everything started at an early age. My parents told me the truth and quickly proceeded to tell me that my knowledge was a secret. I wasn’t very good at keeping secrets back then. Even with my secret knowledge, Santa continued to bring me lots of toys and stuff, and much more than he brought anyone else. Continue reading
I saw a friend yesterday doing a random act of kindness. He was giving something away that he didn’t need anymore, and giving it to someone that could use it. She kept insisting that she needed to pay him, and he was insisting that she doesn’t need to.
What do you do in these situations? The person on the receiving end is really feeling a need to pay something for what you’re giving them or they wouldn’t offer several times. You are sincere about just giving the items away, not expecting or wanting payment. Solution? Tell the person on the receiving end that you don’t need the money, but there are many good organizations that do. Ask the person to give whatever money they would have given you, but give it to your favorite cause. It’s a win-win-win situation. You get rid of the stuff you didn’t need, your friend gets something they need without feeling like they owe you and a good cause gets some money to further their work.
What is your favorite cause? It’s not only important to have a cause in mind, but know how they accept donations. Mine is online and they accept donations via check or PayPal. Okay, so that’s only one of my many favorites… Also, if the person doesn’t have the money, but still wants to do something, you can encourage them to donate some of their stuff to a thrift store or help serve others through one of the organizations.