I dropped off several bags at the Goodwill trailer, and the only logical exit is to drive behind the shopping center. It’s a strip mall with a grocery store, a couple of restaurants and lots of small mom and pop type stores. As we were driving around back to head home, I saw a bunch of clothes thrown in front of a dumpster. I’m really not sure why the person that threw them out there didn’t place them in the dumpster, but I decided before I eve got out of the car that these needed to be used, not end up in a landfill.
Now don’t get me wrong, had any of these been my size or anything I needed, I would have taken them. I guess instead of dumpster diving, we could call this dumpster surfing. My son who was with me was not all that impressed that we were going to pick these up and take them back to the Goodwill trailer. He reluctantly helped me load them in the car. It didn’t take long, and the clothes were all in good condition. At least they won’t be in a landfill.
I’m guessing these were rejects from the Plato’s Closet store in the strip mall. Anyway, they found a good place. Surfing is good.
I still need to get rid of some of my clothing. I downsized by 50% a few weeks ago, but there’s still a few more pieces I could part with. I was thinking about the clothing again after a short trip I took recently.
I went house hunting last Sunday, no, not to buy one, but to look for an abandoned house. I’m part of a photo group that goes to small towns looking for abandoned houses, vacant buildings, old vehicles or anything else that has been left to deteriorate and wither away. We’re never disappointed. This last trip to Krum, Texas produced an abandoned house, a school bus, a fire truck and a semi truck, among other things. The abandoned houses are always left full of stuff, but the things that surprise me the most is the clothing and the photographs left behind. Who leaves a house without taking these things?
Just to give you an idea, this was the living room, going into the kitchen.
These are pics of the clothing left behind.
The nightgown still hanging on the back of the door…
I always wonder what the story is, but have yet to find one. I’m led to look at the artifacts, ponder the possibilities and create my own fictional tale.
It’s dusk, the daylight slowly fading away. The stuffed pig is sad, waiting patiently for the missing woman that should be coming home now. After a long bath, she will put on the flowered gown. Where is she? Rarely is she late. What was that? A sound, followed with silence. Silence that has turned to deafness over the years. Still waiting. It’s dusk. Where is she?
Here’s the experiment. I decided to reduce my wardrobe by 50%. I also threw out a mini-challenge. Take 25 pieces of clothing from your closet, place them in a box or plastic tote. Put it away for a month and see if you miss any of the stuff in it. If not, take it to the thrift store. If so, take out the item(s) you missed. Here are some updates.
I still have a long way to go on achieving a 50% wardrobe reduction. I’m close, but I still need to purge some more stuff. I went through my drawers and got rid of about 40% of that. I need to make my 2nd and 3rd passes there. I also had 2 loads of dirty laundry that were not included. I didn’t count the pieces, but just guessing, I need to get rid of about 75-100 more pieces. I’ll do that later in the week.
my boys did the mini challenge
I had both of my kids pull 25 clothing items out of their closets.
My youngest, 10, has some emotional attachments to his clothing, and to stuff he’s never even worn. Wow, we all start this process early. He has a lot of hand-me-downs that he intends to wear. The process was not easy for him.
My oldest, 11, is way pickier than I thought. I learned a lot about him in the process. He hates yellow and thinks it makes him look like a clown. He won’t wear anything with a collar. He had a lot of clothes in the back of his closet that were too small, and some clean laundry. I thought he had a lot of clothes, but he doesn’t because his brother, being the same size, has hoarded them all.
50 pieces of clothing is going to the resale shop. And my boys? They feel good about it. It’s easier to keep their rooms clean.
others taking the challenge
I have gotten some great responses to the mini-challenge. Besides the several people doing it, here’s some great feedback. Continue reading
I’m posting the 25 piece clothing challenge separate from the blog post, as I have a few people that want to participate already. I’ll post the results monthly, along with the list of people participating. Check it out.
Take 25 pieces of clothing from your closet, place them in a box or plastic tote. Put it away for a month and see if you miss any of the stuff in it. If not, take it to the thrift store. If so, take out the item(s) you missed. Rinse, lather and repeat.
If you do this challenge, send me a photo and the date you did it. I will even pick up your box if you live in the north Dallas area and take it to the thrift store for you. I would also love to blog your results.
I promised you dirty laundry, so here it is. There’s actually more of it, but this is my basket. My kids have one upstairs too. So why an I showing you this? I have no idea, other than it seemed like a fun title for this blog post.
I was thinking a few days ago how ridiculous it is that I have as many clothes as I do. I have a relatively small closet, at least considered small by Frisco standards. It’s a walk-in for skinny people. I thought, “What if I got rid of half of my clothing?” Helping my friend move back into her house, and helping her purge clothing from her son’s outgrown wardrobe, was the final push I needed to do this.
I decided to do it. Get rid of half of my clothes. Going into this, I had no idea if this would be easy or difficult. Will it feel like a sacrifice? Let’s see…
Let’s start with my closet. I have approximately 278 pieces of clothing in there, so I will need to purge 139 pieces. The first pass through the closet yielded 84 pieces of clothing. Not bad for a first pass, but still a pretty long way to go.
The second pass, which was a little bit difficult, yielded 28 pieces of clothing. This pass felt a little bit like a sacrifice, but when I thought about it, most of this is stuff I don’t wear anymore. This batch included my pair of mismatched shoes, as they’re too small and hurt my feet. Sad about those, but it makes sense to pass them on. These will go to the first person that asks for them (size 7.5), as the thrift store would pitch them in the trash thinking they need exact matches. Continue reading
Amy found this clothing store in New York City called Necessary Clothing. Yes, clothing is necessary, and from the looks of the mannequins, you might need to buy several pieces of it.
I did a little research on this store. They’re located in the SoHo district and it looks like they carry reasonably priced clothing, comparable to Forever 21 and Charlotte Russe. The clothing has been described as hoochie-mama or hooker styles. I don’t see how those style are necessary to my wardrobe, but it does explain the mannequin’s lack of clothing. I have to say, I found this photo interesting, a mannequin with a boob job. Even Darla is shaking her head on this one.
I want to go to New York City and find some thrift stores. I wonder how many they have and what areas they’re in. It would be a fun trip.
If you took the amount of money you spent on the clothes you’re wearing right now, got that amount in $1 bills, how much of your body would it cover? I would clearly be in trouble. I know, that’s a stupid analogy, but it seems like some of the clothing sold at full retail prices is just not a good value for the dollar. What I mean is that the higher the dollar amount, the less amount of clothing you get. Jeans with holes cost more. Tiny thin t-shirts cost more. I guess it’s the name brands and the styles we’re paying for. Here’s one of my favorite quotes about style, and it’s so true.
Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months. — Oscar Wilde
I just don’t have much to share on the shopping front. I’m just not doing it. Instead, I’ll share a few photos today.
This house was abandoned in the 70’s, and interestingly enough, it looks as though they moved nothing out of it. Not only are the clothes still hanging in the closet, but there was a vacuum cleaner, furniture, kitchen stuff, photographs… you name it. Apparently they were not emotionally attached to their stuff.
Here’s a bunch of random “abandoned” photos. Enjoy…
Any other day of the year, no retailer would allow you to walk around their store with a camera around your neck, they would stop you and make you put it away. On black friday, that’s not the case. With the busyness and chaos of the thousands of shoppers, extremely long lines and merchandise everywhere, nobody stopped me. Here’s the black friday 2010 video to the tune of AC/DC’s Back in Black.
A few black friday observations:
- It’s controlled chaos. The retailers are creating it and they’re prepared for it.
- There’s a size relationship. The bigger the person, the bigger the packages. Oh, how some psycho therapist needs to analyze this.
- People like to get a deal. I’m not sure if they really want or need this stuff, but there seems to be an accomplishment once they’ve gotten a deal. If they researched a possible purchase during the year, they could probably find a similar savings. Is it really a deal if it’s cheap and not needed?
- Loss leaders. There are some deals that can’t be found throughout the year, but these loss leaders are only available to the first 3-5 people according to the ads. Not a bad deal, but I would do the cost analysis, time and effort versus cost savings.
- Warranties. Many of the big ticket loss leaders have very limited warranties. Before buying, you better make sure it works before you put it under the tree. Many items have 15 days warranties. They might as well just skip that altogether.
- 2 types of men. The ones that like electronics with a willingness to get up early and fight for it and the “my wife made me do this and I better get sex tonight” male drag-a-longs. I might start a line of t-shirts before next year.
- Sporting event. I’m pretty sure most women see this as some sort of sporting event. It’s a race for the best deals and to get all the shopping done at one time. Most of them are getting lots of practice time during the year, so it should be a good game.
There’s much more, but that’s the big stuff. Now, what to get my kids for Christmas without going shopping?
I will be leading a breakout session today at ministryCOM, a church communications conference. I like to dress comfortable, and I usually do without a second thought. So why did I feel the need to try on everything in my closet today? The cultural norm is to buy a new outfit when you have an event or something to do that’s different from your normal routine. Not only did I not do this, but it never even crossed my mind. I have done this a few times in the past.
It’s not like any of us need new clothes, it’s some phycological thing to make us feel good about ourselves. Why? Is it an attention thing? Do men do this too? (besides metro-sexual men) Is it so we can try to look better than everyone else around us? Is it to stand out in a crowd? Is it an inner peace knowing we spent some money we didn’t need to spend? I’m not sure.
I’m going to try on a few more things before I go to work.