There’s a lot of stuff that might be considered trash, but before you throw something away, think about the possible uses for it. These are partially full cleaning supplies and pesticides, well, there’s also a random bottle of unopened champagne too. Just because it’s half empty (or half full, depending on your perspective) and you don’t want it, dosen’t mean someone else can’t use it. I list this on freecycle and it was gone in a matter of hours. Yes, it’s my waste, but it doesn’t need to end up in a landfill or disposal center.
Before you throw things away, here’s some things to think about.
- Repurpose. Could I repurpose this for something else?
- Sell. Is this something that I could sell?
- Give. Is this something I could give away? Do I know anyone who might use this or need this? Will a thrift store take it? Remember, your trash might be some else’s treasure. Put it on freecycle. If it doesn’t go on freecycle, it might just be trash.
- Green. What is the best environmental way to get rid of this item? Can it be recycled?
- Good. Is there a way to use this to bless someone else? Can you give it to a fundraiser or charity?
- Plan. Why did you buy this in the first place? Have you made a plan not to buy it, or anything similar again?
- Repurchase. If you need this item or something similar in the future, is there a smaller size or is it something you can borrow?
Yes, this is a lot to think about each time you plan to get rid of something, but if you start doing this, it will change your habits. It will be easier to get rid of things because you will have a process and your shopping habits will change, as you will think long-term about something before you buy it. It’s a win-win. :)
We’re taught from little on that we should always share. As we get a little older, we have our own stuff, but we’re still told to share on occasion. Then we hit our teens. I don’t think anyone told me I should share anymore at that age. We start backing off the sharing. Then as an adult, I guess we’re not really expected to share, although if an opportunity arises, most of the time, we will share. If we need something, we usually just go out and buy it, resulting in ownership of a lot of stuff. Stuff that costs money, stuff that uses resources and stuff we simply don’t need. What if we transferred shopping time into sharing time? What if we started to share again?
So what is sharing?
1. a part or portion of something owned, allotted to, or contributed by a person or group
— vb (often foll by out ) (when intr, often foll by in )
1. to divide or apportion, esp equally
2. to join with another or others in the use of (something): can I share your umbrella?
We all have things sitting around our house that we don’t use regularly. A few days ago, I used a drill as an example. Could we lend our drill to a friend? If you need a hole and you don’t have a drill, could you borrow one? Let’s do a little exercise.
Think of 3 things you have sitting around your house, not being used or used rarely.
Would you be willing to lend these items to someone you know?
If you’re like me, you probably thought of more than 3 items. What would it look like for you to lend these things out? With current technology, this is not only possible, it’s easy. You won’t have to wonder who you lent that book to anymore either. You can sign up on actsofsharing.com to borrow and lend with only your friends. Not only will it track your items, but it will also calculate how much you have saved by borrowing, how much you’ve saved your friends by lending them things and tells you how many items in total your friends have listed. Continue reading
Yesterday, I spent the early part of the day running errands before work. Most of them were driving the Infiniti sleigh, full of donations, to all of the required destinations for drop-off. I started at the Habitat for Humanity ReStore, dropping off my old back door, extra slate tiles and a bag of hardware. I went inside to look for a new front door. The style I want, the size and that fact it needs to be used is making it difficult to find one. Yesterday I found 3, and 2 of which I liked, but I decided not to purchase one. I don’t need it and I’ve spent a lot of money on my house lately.
Next stop was the purple thrift store in McKinney, benefiting the Samaritan Inn. I dropped off a few bags of my stuff, a box of stuff from work and two bags from my friends. Of course I had to go inside, but I did it with my new minimalist trajectory. Here’s what I didn’t buy. 2 blue ceramic bowls. I thought about buying them because we don’t use paper plates or plastic utensils, even when entertaining, so I tend to keep more of these in the house. I have all solid colored mis-matched dishes. I chose not to buy them, as I really don’t entertain that much and I didn’t need them. Just saved $2. The other thing I didn’t buy was a metal orange tray for $3. My kids like to occasionally use a tray to eat upstairs, which I allow about 2 times a year. We have a plastic red tray, and I didn’t need the orange tray. No need for 2 of anything like that. I probably don’t even need to keep the red tray. I didn’t need anything in there, so I left without buying anything. Time for my next stop.
I decided to go to Half Price Books since I had a pile of books I didn’t need. I’ve sold books to them in the past and I swore I would never do it again. For the number of books, the value of them as used books and the condition, I always felt financially raped when I left there after selling books. I thought this time I’ll go in, sell my stuff and be prepared for any amount of money I might get. I gave them 8 classic novels, 4 current magazines, 1 current novel, 3 cookbooks and other miscellaneous books. 23 pieces in all.
All of these are used, my best estimate is $40.00 out of pocket. Since it was a weekend, Half Price was busy so I had to wait a little while for them to process my stuff. That was no problem, as I wanted to look around a little bit. I was hoping to find some books on hoarding or materialism, but to no avail. I looked on the ‘housekeeping / organization’ shelf first. Continue reading
I decided to grill out tonight and was wondering if I was going to need a new propane tank. Since that is energy to cook with, and they sell the tank refills at the grocery store, I have decided this will be okay. I did ponder the fact that it’s not a necessity, as I could cook inside. I also thought that cooking outside versus inside saves on utilities since all of the hot cooking would make the air conditioning run more. Anyway, I’m up for your thoughts on this.
We also went to the outdoor movie in downtown Frisco last night and it was some nice family time. They put up the big inflatable screen and hundreds went to watch Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs. I kept thinking I need to bring a small version of this to some apartment complexes in Frisco where the kids can’t go downtown, as their parents are working or they don’t have the transportation.
I also want to post my response to a comment left on the future of shopping post. This is from Ozz…
Well lets see….The US is a CONSUMER based economy it is no surprise that companies attempt to make shopping an easier afair. I think it’s kinda cool but I hate dressing rooms. Just think of the jobs from wiring the stores for this, the dock workers taking the shipments of plasma screens, the software support (ok probably really good for India but ya never know)….etc.
Why some of these impoverished people might get a job due to this, then they can buy the clothes. What a concept instead of handing out…train. It is better to show a man how to fish than to just give him fish.
My response. (Feel free to start a discussion here)
Although I agree with your statement of teaching man how to fish, I don’t feel that this shopping direction is a positive one. This seems to me like another step in making the rich richer and the poor poorer. Our consumer based economy teaches us and our kids that more is better, success is defined by money and happiness will be yours if you buy things that make life easier and more comfortable.
I have become uncomfortable with my comfort. I don’t expect everyone to follow me in that (okay, so I hope some do), but I hope as a society that we can make some positive changes. Like bridging ‘the gap’ between rich people and poor people. ‘Target’ing new ways to build community and thinking outside ourselves, while not building more ‘wal’s to protect ourselves from people we don’t know or understand.
One last thing. There are many types of homelessness and poverty. When I go visit friends (I don’t see these as mission trips anymore), and I see a cute little kid helping me work on painting an apartment so they have a place to meet with others, or maybe a child in Mexico that doesn’t have enough to eat, they just want to feel loved and have their basic needs met. Yes, there are many people who have chosen homelessness as a way of life and I’m sure there are many lazy people our there that don’t want to work and instead ‘work’ the system. But there are many out there that don’t have a choice and they need justice, people who care and are willing to get off their butts and do something about it.
Too lazy to try on clothing or too lazy to work? I’m not the one to judge that, although I have many opinions… (I know, we’re all surprised by that!) My point with this whole shopping thing is that I’m not going to be lazy with this. If it takes a little extra effort to buy necessities that are not excessive, not made in sweatshops and better for the environment, then that’s what I’m going to do. Small change can equal big change.
Ozz, I love a devil’s advocate perspective and you know I greatly appreciate your views! Keep them coming.