While in the process of ridding my house of many unused things, I received a Facebook message about a garage sale. This is not just any garage sale, it’s a sale to help someone in need. Here’s the info from Facebook.
We will be holding a HUGE Charity Garage Sale at Third Monday Trade Days on Highway 380 in McKinney on Friday April 15th and Saturday April 16th. ALL proceeds will go to the Bereavement Fund to assist Tami and her children with life after the loss of her husband and the children’s Father. Medical bills are mounting and Tami is about to have her 6th child this April.
Plesae consider donating your items, volunteering to help run the sale, pricing, boxing, transporting items to the sale venue and even just sending this to ALL of your friends so we can get the word out! The more the better!
The timing on this, for me personally, is a little ironic. I sometimes gather donations to take to the thrift store or to bring to an orphanage I love, and the first thing most people say is, “I have some old clothes I can send.” This is sale actually a great place to send those unwanted clothes, as opposed to donating them to people that need other things. (click here to read about situational needs) I brought them some clothing, not because I didn’t want it, but because I didn’t need it. I purposely downsized my wardrobe by over 50%, so this clothing isn’t out-of-style stuff, it’s good stuff with life left in it.
I gave lots of other stuff that I had slotted for the thrift store and craigslist. I can always use the money I would get from selling stuff, but I don’t need it. This is a way to infuse good into your stuff while blessing others. In this process, I’m helping someone in need, I’ve met some really cool people I didn’t know, I’m blessing others with some of my unused material possessions and my life is slowly becoming less stressful, as I’m getting out of the gridlock of my belongings.
These photos were taken over a week ago. I’m sure much more has been donated by now and this isn’t even all of the stuff. Take a look.
I’ve gotten a few questions on my new grocery shopping plan. I shop more frequently, but buying less, limiting myself to 25 items or less. You can read the story about the downsizing and new shopping plan that was published in early February 2011. Take a look.
Here’s the before and after photos of my pantry. The after was taken a couple of weeks ago and even has less in there today. I don’t have photos of the refrigerator or freezer, but they are sparse as well. Here’s some of the results or the new way of shopping.
I started shopping at Aldi versus Kroger, Tom Thumb, WalMart or Target. That, coupled with the 25 items or less, has produced the following monetary results. These amount reflect groceries, the occasional toiletry items and some wine.
February 2011: $268.95
March 2011 (so far, 1 week left): $149.89
I started this in mid January, so I didn’t look at that month. Here’s what I spent the 2 months prior. Continue reading
We’re taught from little on that we should always share. As we get a little older, we have our own stuff, but we’re still told to share on occasion. Then we hit our teens. I don’t think anyone told me I should share anymore at that age. We start backing off the sharing. Then as an adult, I guess we’re not really expected to share, although if an opportunity arises, most of the time, we will share. If we need something, we usually just go out and buy it, resulting in ownership of a lot of stuff. Stuff that costs money, stuff that uses resources and stuff we simply don’t need. What if we transferred shopping time into sharing time? What if we started to share again?
So what is sharing?
1. a part or portion of something owned, allotted to, or contributed by a person or group
— vb (often foll by out ) (when intr, often foll by in )
1. to divide or apportion, esp equally
2. to join with another or others in the use of (something): can I share your umbrella?
We all have things sitting around our house that we don’t use regularly. A few days ago, I used a drill as an example. Could we lend our drill to a friend? If you need a hole and you don’t have a drill, could you borrow one? Let’s do a little exercise.
Think of 3 things you have sitting around your house, not being used or used rarely.
Would you be willing to lend these items to someone you know?
If you’re like me, you probably thought of more than 3 items. What would it look like for you to lend these things out? With current technology, this is not only possible, it’s easy. You won’t have to wonder who you lent that book to anymore either. You can sign up on actsofsharing.com to borrow and lend with only your friends. Not only will it track your items, but it will also calculate how much you have saved by borrowing, how much you’ve saved your friends by lending them things and tells you how many items in total your friends have listed. Continue reading
My friend Ryan sent me this list of things you should never buy new, which also has a link to things you should never buy used. I agree with most of it. I got burned two years ago on buying a used laptop for my kids. Here are links to the lists:
Things you should never buy new.
Things you should never buy used.
Then I found another link that asked, “Are you ready to be extremely frugal?” I first thought about Jerod, because he’s the most frugal person I know besides myself. If anyone were to rank me and Jerod, he would win on the frugal scale. I found something interesting…
Stop buying stuff. This may not sound too extreme but it can be. Those who are part of The Compact vow to buy nothing new for a year. There are some exceptions such as food, medicine, and hygiene products but otherwise they buy nothing new for a year. If you want to try your own version of The Compact, you could try not buying anything new for a week or a month. You will save the money you would have spent buying the stuff plus they money you would have spent maintaining the stuff. While these frugal measures may be extreme, implementing them or the less extreme alternatives can save you a lot of money and help you keep your budget under control.
Ha! Yep, already doing this. And I joined The Compact group on Yahoo of people who are also doing this for a year. They have over 10,000 people in the group!!!